As we age, we deal with the changes in different ways. Maybe we accept them and move on. Maybe we try to lessen or conceal them. Maybe we fight back like a UFC fighter. That’s why there are many ways to deal with graying hair.

Abra,

Recently, I crossed a line between a few gray hairs and a lot of gray hairs.  I color my hair but don’t know what to do in between appointments.  What do you do?

Serena

I started going gray at 30.  At 42, the gray is significant.  And while I am fine with the light sagging of my neck, the lack of firmness in my jaw line, and the wrinkles on my forehead, I cannot abide going gray.  I’m just not ready, and frankly, it’s up to every woman to decide when and how she’s ready to make that change for herself.

My hairdresser touches up my roots every 5-weeks.  Four is not enough to make it worth the $150.  Six is too long, and I wind up with a stripe down my scalp.  

In between appointments, I keep the color looking fresh with dpHue gloss in medium brown.  It just freshens up the ends, which lose their luster over time.  It’s also a pretty good conditioner.

If my roots are looking especially visible, I touch them up with a $12 root spray from L’Oreal.  It’s effective and doesn’t make my scalp itch.  Pro tip: Hit it with a blow dryer on cool to lock in the color so you don’t wind up with it on your clothes or fingers. When I travel, I pack the touch-up pen.  It doesn’t work quite as well, but it will do in a pinch.

If other ladies have tips to share, leave them in the comments.

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