Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain. // Joseph Campbell
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I’m really struggling right now. The postpartum anxiety is hitting hard. If I’m not around much, it’s because I can’t be. I’ve sought care, but it’s a process. Thank you for understanding.
From Emily Giffin.
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14 comments
Elizabeth says:
Best wishes with you, your health, and your family. This community wants nothing but the best for you – feed yourself first, we’ll be here.
Amanda says:
Well said.
Aam1 says:
No words helped me much when I was in the thick of postpartum misery, so all I’ll say is it’s awful and I’m so sorry you’re going through it.
-Jen says:
Thank you for getting help. We’ll be here when you get back.
TheLOOP says:
Hang in there, Abra. If working on this blog gives you joy or at least a welcome break, great. If it’s feeling like a drain, forget it. Nothing is more important that your well-being right now.
Diana says:
The PP struggle is real. I’m so sorry you are in the midst of it. Sending you all the best.
Lost says:
Best Wishes for you. It’s not easy. Take care of yourself.
RR says:
Take care of yourself and give yourself grace. Post-partum is legitimately one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. All the virtual hugs!
JANE says:
Sending hugs. Postpartum health challenges on top of caring for a newborn is crazy hard. Take care of yourself as best you can.
Catherine says:
PPA/PPD is the worst. Focus on what makes you happy and whole. You are enough.
Megan says:
I’ve been there, and it’s brutal. But it will pass — just remember that. It may not seem like it now, but know that you will come out on the other side of this experience. Take care.
ariane says:
take care of your self!!
Liz says:
Thank you as always for your authenticity. It’s a real gift and a helpful reminder that the people around us have more going on than what might be visible at the surface. Sending out best wishes from the web- may you be met with well deserved rest, renewal, and joy
Jo says:
I’m glad you’re looking out for yourself – wishing you the best. Hang in there.